This is Marriage talk

as seen on

Salim Shaibu’s wall

I have found to be true

let me advise those intending to marry with these few points of mine. Sit down and read well👇😜

💐Avoid borrowing to do a wedding. Some people are divorced and still paying for the money they borrowed just to pepper people who didn’t even care about their papa. If you can’t afford it, cut your coat according to your pocket, not Instagram pressure.

💐If the person you want to marry is not kind, don’t waste your time. Kindness is not optional in marriage. Fine face, sweet mouth, or even money can’t cover a wicked heart.

💐Any marriage that will make you lose yourself or abandon your vision is not worth it. I reject that kind of marriage for you in advance. A good partner should support your dreams, not silence them.

💐Have your own money and be stable before you enter. Love is sweet, but it needs sense and stability to survive. Don’t go and become a liability in the name of love.

💐If your in-laws don’t like you, my dear, abort mission. That marriage will stress you. Family drama is real, and if you’re not welcomed from the start, you may spend your years fighting silent wars.

💐Most importantly, marry someone who truly loves God. Not just church-goer vibes, but someone whose life reflects it. When both of you have God in your corner, you’ll stand a better chance of facing life together.

Marriage is not vibes and cruise its partnership, purpose, and patience. Choose well.

If this spoke to you, share it. You might be saving someone from a lifetime of regret.

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