Christian Living and Faith

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My Christian Living and Faith blog provides inspiration, Devotional guidance, and resources for spiritual growth, personal development, biblical understanding, Financial Stewardship, family and parenting.

๐Œ๐€๐‘๐‘๐ˆ๐€๐†๐„ ๐ˆ๐’ ๐๐Ž๐“ ๐€๐‹๐‹ ๐€๐๐Ž๐”๐“ ๐‚๐‡๐„๐Œ๐ˆ๐’๐“๐‘๐˜ ๐๐”๐“ ๐€๐๐Ž๐”๐“ ๐ƒ๐„๐’๐“๐ˆ๐๐˜

Chemistry is a feeling or attraction towards someone and itโ€™s stimulated by innermost chemical reactions within oneself as a result of physical appearance or character display of the other person.

Anytime we meet someone that is fit into the image of the kind of partner we desired, a chemical reaction is stimulated, therefore creating attractions between the persons.

Those chemical reaction will somehow short down ones senses or a part of their brain from reasoning normally, therefore causing them to behave in an abnormal way, which we called love.

This is the reason why some people get madly in love and canโ€™t be separated. This happens in new relationships. No matter what you do, you canโ€™t stop that kind of relationship. Some will even have problem with anyone that try to get in between them, even their parents.

Those chemicals are about 70% to 80% in an early stage of a relationship but reduces with time, to about 25% to 20% or less. This is where many relationships end because their senses will be reactivated and their brain will come alive. Then the light of reality is turned on. ๐“๐‡๐€๐“’๐’ ๐–๐‡๐„๐‘๐„ ๐“๐‡๐„ ๐–๐Ž๐‘๐ƒ โ€œ๐‹๐Ž๐•๐„ ๐ˆ๐’ ๐๐‹๐ˆ๐๐ƒโ€ ๐‚๐€๐Œ๐„ ๐…๐‘๐Ž๐Œ.

Understand you cannot control this chemical reactions. They are naturally created by God. But you can control them through the quality of information you allow into your mind. The information you have about love will determine your chemistry. If your standards for a partner are wrong, the chemical will react base on false equation, therefore creating a false love.

Have the right orientation about love from Godโ€™s word.

Marriage is all about destiny, and not chemistry.

Chemistry will fade away with time but destiny will last forever.

Destiny is simply a destination and marriage is a journey.

Thereโ€™s no need for marriage If thereโ€™s no specified destination.

As a lady, the man you married has a lot to do with your destiny, since man is the head of the family.

If the destination of that man is not where you want to end up, donโ€™t get into the marriage.

Forget the money or the chemistry, follow the destiny.

If the destiny is right, money and chemistry will surface automatically. Remain blessed.

๐†๐จ๐ ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ™

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