Five Types of Hugging in Marriage

5 TYPES OF HUGGING IN MARRIAGE

• Bisi Adewale

“We are each angel with only one wing. We can fly by embracing each other”. Luciano De Crescenzo

Never wait until tomorrow before you hug your spouse; do it today, do it now! When you give one, you get one right back your way!

Hugging is another thing that is lacking in marriages today. Couples are having less of it, thereby missing the great miracle of an embrace.

Wives generally love to be hugged. They like it if their husbands give them often. But men are less interested in it. Most married couples can go for months or years without hugging each other. This is very bad, and it’s a sign that romance is going down the drain in their marriages.

TYPES OF HUGGING

There are many types of hugging. You can give any of them to your spouse as the occasion demands. They are

1. Plastic hug: This does not involve touching, “hands roaming, squeezing of each other tightly, resting on each other’s shoulders, heart beating together and remaining motionless. This is recommended if you don’t want your hugging to be romantic and lead to sex.
2. Bear Hug: It involves direct body contact, a slight squeezing of each other’s body, and moving a little from one point to the other.
3. Sexy Hug: It also involves full-body contact, no squeezing of the body but involves fully wrapping oneself to one’s partner with private parts touching each other and pressing hard on each other. This should be in the privacy of your house. The kind of hug you can do before children and friends should be the Model A Hug.
4. Kissing Hug: It is a sexy hug that involves kissing, holding each other’s heads, hands moving around the body with deep kissing, eyes open and close with a focus on more intimacy. This can be as a form of foreplay.
5. Consoling Hug: More often, this is a Model A hug but with a pat on the back to console, encourage or motivate. Wives most of the time need this kind of hug from their husbands in times of challenges.