Wisdom Nuggets: Embracing New Environment for Help

Wisdom Nugget: Embrace New Environments for Help

In life, we often encounter situations where the very environments or people we expect assistance from fail to offer it. This can be disheartening, but it should never deter us from seeking help elsewhere. One of the most profound lessons I’ve learned is that the environment that refuses to aid us should never hinder us from creating new environments where help can be found.

Consider the story of a pastor facing financial struggles. When he approached me for assistance, I didn’t hesitate to offer what little I had. However, I also advised him to reach out to someone he had previously avoided due to past conflicts. Despite his initial reluctance, he followed my advice, and within 24 hours, he received the help he desperately needed. This experience taught me several invaluable lessons that I’d like to share:

1. Create New Environments: When existing environments or individuals fail to support us, it’s essential to seek out new avenues for assistance. Don’t let past experiences or rejections dictate your future opportunities.
2. Don’t Make Enemies Unnecessarily: Just because someone is unwilling to help doesn’t mean they should become our enemies. Instead, focus on building relationships with those who are willing to support us, even when it’s inconvenient for them.
3. Value Support Over Criticism: Those who mock us for our failures shouldn’t influence our decisions to seek help from supportive individuals. Prioritize those who genuinely want to see us succeed.
4. Choose Your Alliances Wisely: We shouldn’t inherit enemies on behalf of those who refuse to help us. Instead, focus on aligning ourselves with individuals who are willing to offer assistance and guidance.
5. Accept Help Wherever it Comes From: Help can come from unexpected sources, including those we may perceive as enemies. Accept assistance graciously, regardless of the source, as it can make a significant difference in our lives.
6. Avoid Regrets: Failure to seek help due to pride or stubbornness can lead to missed opportunities. Don’t let ego prevent you from receiving the support you need to thrive.
7. Strive for Personal Growth: Surround yourself with individuals who encourage growth and development. Don’t limit yourself to one class or social circle; instead, seek out opportunities to elevate your circumstances.
8. Forgiveness and Love Trump Judgment: Even those labeled as “devils” may show kindness and generosity, while those deemed “angels” may harbor judgment and resentment. Embrace forgiveness and love, regardless of others’ perceptions.

In conclusion, never allow past rejections or conflicts to hinder your ability to seek help and support. Embrace new environments and alliances, prioritize those who genuinely want to see you succeed, and above all, cultivate a spirit of forgiveness and love. By doing so, you’ll open yourself up to a world of opportunities and blessings.